I was 26 and in my first queer relationship. I spent my life as a “straight person” and never questioned it. Then I met Toddie. It was so eye-opening for me. I stepped out of the “majority” and into the “minority” and I realized something: It is so deeply important to have representation. It was rare that I’d ever see a couple like Toddie and I, and when I did, I’d get so excited. As a wedding dance teacher AND a person planning a queer wedding, I started seeing it more and more: the heteronorma

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