23 years ago, I made a decision that changed the trajectory of my life. My life was headed down a dark road... a road my father, and grandfather traveled down that did not reflect the type of man I desired to be. I was afraid I was going to fail like them. They were womanizers, absent fathers, and left no legacy for their children’s children. I stood next to this beautiful woman and her beautiful daughter, afraid I would fail them like I had been failed. But the man I desired to be pushed the ma